Tarot, P2, Formatted

Chapter 1. Your General Compatibility with Each Other

His Sun in Libra and Her Sun in Gemini

You have an excellent mental rapport, and you enjoy one another's intelligence, wit and style. <-- How very true.

He is very considerate, has a strong desire to please Her (or any partner) and will compromise readily. <-- Sayang, you don't always have to do this, you know.


He always sees numerous possibilities or desirable alternatives, and you both have trouble being decisive or making up your minds sometimes. <-- The man who makes the impossible possible.

His Moon in Capricorn and Her Moon in Scorpio

Both of you are quiet and you often don't express all that you are feeling, but the reasons for this are quite different in each of you. <-- Very True.

He tends to repress feelings, emotional needs, and the inner child who wants to play and to be taken care of. Practical matters, work and responsibilities take precedence over play and pleasure, and desires which are "too childish" or "unrealistic" are downplayed. He often keeps an emotional distance and will not get emotionally involved.

Frequently He seems impassive, unresponsive, or emotionally detached, and has a habit of taking life too seriously. Material security and success can become a substitute for emotional well-being and happiness. <-- I agree. ^_^

She, on the other hand, is intensely emotional, though very private and secretive about feelings. She is deep, complex, given to silent brooding, and often harbors unspoken feelings for a long time. Resentments, guilt and secret fears can build up to tremendous proportions if not shared and released. <--I’m ashamed to admit it, but it’s true.

Neither of you trusts others very readily, and you are both afraid of being vulnerable or not in control. <--Not too sure about this for him, but it is for me.

This can prevent you from opening up completely to one another. You are both capable of great depth, fidelity, and constancy in a relationship, and neither of you is superficial emotionally. For this reason you can be harmonious together. <--Really? I hope so.

Mercury & Uranus conjunct or hard for Her, soft for Him

Both of you have inspired minds and are always open to new angles, novel or experimental ideas, alternative approaches.

She is more of a radical, however, and is frequently impatient and contrary to anything which impedes change and progress. She feels compelled to wake people up a bit and doesn't mind startling or even outraging others from time to time. <-- Heh… Guilty as charged.

He, on the other hand, integrates new ideas without necessarily rejecting the old and traditional, or offending more conservative people. While both of you are interested in stimulating fresh ideas and approaches, He communicates these ideas with more tact and smoothness - something She could learn from Him. <-- Teach me, dear?

Mars & Jupiter hard for Him, conjunct or soft for Her

Both of you have an abundance of energy along with an enterprising spirit, a love of challenges, and big dreams and the drive to accomplish them. But He is a bit foolhardy and overconfident at times, and may take unnecessary risks, whereas She has a fortuitous sense of timing. She is less likely to encounter problems due to haste, impatience, over-eagerness, and/or not accepting limitations. From her, He could learn to flow rather than to force or try to conquer every obstacle.