What to do?

I'm bored, frustrated at my parents, and wondering at the direction of my relationship with Nick. I don't want to lose him, but I'm sick and tired of my parents dictating my life. How do I strike a balance between the two? I want my parents to back off my life, but I can't do that until I move out of the house.

My GRANMOTHER is moving in, and though I love her dearly, I can't stand the thought of someone else telling what to do. I'M SICK OF IT!!!

ARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!

And for those who want to know, talking to my parents about it is like talking to a lamppost, only I think the lamppost would give up after a while.